HOW TO…PROPOSE

20 10 2010

 

 

“Will you marry me ? ” is a question that, for the most part, is scary for both men and women. Will she say yes, the man wonders, and when will he ask me?, is going through her head. But what we really want to hear about is the approach the man uses in asking. Will he get down on one knee, do it in front of family, or do it in private? This is something we as women often don’t know, but what we do know is how to observe for signs of awkwardness or nervousness on his part. If we know our men like we think we do, we will pick up on any strange or unusual signs they may exert. Below are a list of ways, or “How Tos” for men on how to propose. Here are a variety of ways that I think are appropriate in asking a woman to marry  you. These ways have been verified through personal and close friends of mine who think just like me…Aren’t you lucky?

1. BE COMPLETELY CALM. IF YOU WANT THIS TO BE A SURPRISE, THEN YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO KEEP YOUR ACTIONS AND DAILY “WAYS” CONSISTENT, OTHERWISE, SHE’S ON TO YOU.

2. THINK OF HER FAVORITE THING IN THE WORLD TO EAT. TAKE HER TO DINNER, AND…NOW HERE IS THE MISTAKE OFTEN TAKEN BY MEN WHO ARE TOO EAGER TO THINK…DON’T PUT IT IN THE FOOD. KEEP THIS IN MIND, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BURY HER BEFORE YOU MARRY HER.

3. FAMILY GIRL? DO THE RIGHT THING AND ASK HER FATHER FOR PERMISSION PRIOR TO POPPING THE QUESTION. NOW THINK, WOULD SHE WANT AN AUDIENCE?

4. IF SO, HAVE HER PARENTS IN ON IT. HAVE THEM INVITE YOU GUYS OVER FOR DINNER. AFTER DINNER, BE READY TO HAVE A SHORT, YET REFINED SPEECH PREPARED.

5. IF SHE LIKES HER PRIVACY, DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST, IT’S THAT SIMPLE. DOES SHE LIKE MOVIES, DINNERS, DRINKS, YOU CHOOSE. YOU KNOW HER BETTER THAN I DO.

6. DON’T, AND I MEAN DON’T SAY YOU ARE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, OR I KNEW IT FROM OUR FIRST KISS, BLAH BLAH…BULL SHIT. SAY IT FROM THE HEART. “THE TIMES THAT I HAVE SPENT WITHOUT YOU WERE UNUSUAL, I WAS NEITHER SAD, NOR HAPPY, NOR MAD. BUT BEING WITH YOU HAS BROUGHT EMOTION INTO MY LIFE, THE ONLY EMOTION I WILL EVER WANT FROM A WOMAN…AND THAT WOMAN WILL ALWAYS AND FOREVER BE YOU. WILL YOU MARRY ME?

7. AS FAR AS THE RING IS CONCERNED, MAKE SURE THEY ARE CONFLICT FREE DIAMONDS. BELOW ARE A LIST OF SITES I HAVE SURFED THROUGH FOR HIGH ROLLERS AND REASONABLE SHOPPERS.

 

8. TAKE HER MOTHER WITH YOU, NOT HER BEST FRIEND. WOMEN TEND TO GET JEALOUS WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE ENGAGED BEFORE ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS. HER MOTHER WILL BE HONEST AND SINCERE, SHE KNOWS HER DAUGHTER.

9. AFTER THE PROPOSAL, YOU ARE NOT OFF THE HOOK YET. DISCUSS WITH HER A DATE. DON’T BE ONE OF THESE MEN WHO ARE WILLING BUT NOT WILLING TO MAKE THE COMMITMENT, WE DON’T LIKE TO BE LEFT ON HOLD.

10. HELP HER PLAN, SHE WILL BE GRATEFUL.

DIAMONDS- CONFLICT FREE

THE BLUE NILE

THE BRILLIANT EARTH

LEBER JEWELER

 

 

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